What is your fetish?

I have to wonder how common respectable individuals identify and develop a fetish. When does a particular like become a fetish?

I have learned about some fetishes that I think are unusual, but if others enjoy them and find partners who also indulge in the same fetish then what is the harm?

Some people I know have a thing about feet. Just looking at a nice pair of feet gets them all aroused. I can appreciate a foot or two, but can't imaging getting wood while looking at someone's feet. I also would never engage in toe sucking- the thought makes me think of freetos or something.

I have read about people into scat and seen the ads in craigslists where people want others that are into scat. This particular act is completely insane (to me). The thought of rubbing poop on another and having them do the same to me is out of the question. I guess if I were dating a man and he told me he was a scat queen it would be a deal breaker right on the spot. Does that make me a prude? I don't believe that it does, it just means that our particular fetishes are not compatible.

My hubby has a little fetish that he expresses a desire for every now and then. He wants me to piss on him. Well, that also does not make my list of things that I am willing to try. I don't look down on him for expressing his desire for the showers, but it is not something I find arousing and in fact it is a turn off (for me). I still love the little fucker, but not enough to take a wizz on his head.

I keep trying to think about what my fetish would be. There is no one thing that gets me going more than any other (or is there). If I had to pick one thing that usually gets me in the mood it would be........stomachs. I enjoy the abdomin region of a man. He does not have to be rock hard with a ripped up six-pack (it doesn't hurt). I just enjoy the look of the abdomin and torso of a man. It was the first part of my hubby that I fell in love with and I still find myself admiring his tight little belly whenevfer I get a chance.

I also find that lots of straight men will think while rubbing their stomachs and that is one of the sexiest activities they could ever do in front of me. It just seems so seductive and they do itn without even knowing it. Oh well, I guess I do have a fetish!!!